When you first venture onto the personals, you usually have no real idea what to expect. You have spent years enduring the real world bar scene in search of relationships and have likely only come to the online world kicking and screaming, figuring it is worth a shot, along with being more than a little tired of hearing all your friends pestering you to give it a shot. You probably have ideas about the personals, many negative, but one thing that may quickly surprise you is how obsessive they can be.
It’s not always so easy to get out or up online to facilitate dating. To be part of the single for singles brigade sometimes it takes time in searching as well as determining what exactly you want. But finding the right site, the right club, becoming part of the right community, searching your heart and mind for what you need will set you on your way to marching with all those other people who want to date, have a good time, be part of a hook-up or two or find a soul mate. (more…)
We can be as fickle in our choice of dates as we can the sites we find them on. There are so many to search across yet when we are on a good run in our online dating we are on a good run with a site and will come to regard that dating site as the very best one there is. But the truth of the matter is, we are only ever going to champion those sites, clubs, populations where we find success and eschew those places we don’t.
Therefore really, on an objective basis, is one dating site better then another or is it all just how we perceive them? (more…)
Sometimes what we have in our head is better off staying there, at least with some people we’re dating. Sometimes our fantasies are made real and they are not only too much for our lover but sometimes ourselves with that lover. And though we might think we have found the perfect match in someone who agrees to give us all we need in bed, sometimes all we need is not want we really want at that time.
Life’s A Beach December 29, 2011 at
When looking for a great way to enjoy some weekend fun and also find people for dating and summer romance, having a vacation home at the beach is a great option. Not everyone can afford to own a second home, of course, but it could be worthwhile to find other ways to make it happen. Checking with local bed and breakfasts to see if it’s possible to cut a deal for multiple weekends during the season is one possible idea, especially if it’s possible to put down a hefty deposit or pay in advance. Some places would be too happy to have a guaranteed guest for several weekends before the season even starts. (more…)
Shopping Date November 26, 2011 at
Although adult bookstores are getting harder and harder to find outside of really large metropolitan areas, going to one as a couple can be a great date. Whether people are dating, living together or married, shopping together at an adult store can be really sexy and a great way to add a little spark to any couple’s love life. Shopping together online is fun too, and a good alternative if there aren’t any physical stores that are geographically convenient, but not much can beat going to the store together. (more…)
Dating in the age of the internet has become almost unrecognizable from the way dating used to be years ago. The internet is bringing a lot of people together, people who probably never would have met otherwise because they wouldn’t have ever just run into each other in everyday life. People are getting together these days, even if they live in different countries that aren’t close to each other.
While you are out Dating is a great time to carry concealed. Virtually anytime you are out in the community whether you are Dating or not is a good idea. Leaving your weapon in your vehicle can be a tricky thing however because on one hand it’s good if your going into a building such as a Federal one in which you wouldn’t be able to keep it, on the other hand it’s bad because if your vehicle is broken into or stolen, so is your weapon. (more…)
Many of us find the idea of making use of the many different Personals sites on the Internet to be a little scary and intimidating. We worry about making contact with people we do not know at all, and also what type of people we will find out there in the land of cyber dating and romance. (more…)
One of the most often underestimated Dating strategies is activity. Just making the Dating experience an active one where you and your partner do something together rather than just sitting and eating and watching a movie is one of the most effective ways to really bond with that person. Whether your looking for some casual sex or something more the best way to go about getting it is to be active with your date.