When you first venture onto the personals, you usually have no real idea what to expect. You have spent years enduring the real world bar scene in search of relationships and have likely only come to the online world kicking and screaming, figuring it is worth a shot, along with being more than a little tired of hearing all your friends pestering you to give it a shot. You probably have ideas about the personals, many negative, but one thing that may quickly surprise you is how obsessive they can be.
It’s not always so easy to get out or up online to facilitate dating. To be part of the single for singles brigade sometimes it takes time in searching as well as determining what exactly you want. But finding the right site, the right club, becoming part of the right community, searching your heart and mind for what you need will set you on your way to marching with all those other people who want to date, have a good time, be part of a hook-up or two or find a soul mate. (more…)
Bad Boys March 3, 2012 at
The Dating scene is full of those bad boys and nasty girls that makes one’s heart beat a little faster. For men looking for that type of girl this is typically referred to as the Madonna Whore complex. For women they have a James Dena complex. In the fantasy the bad boy can fuck like a racehorse and be as naughty as you want him to be and then get up and go to work. Women believe that the right girl can tame him and make him want to be monogamous. He’s perfectly charming and loyal and when he kisses you your toes curl.
We can be as fickle in our choice of dates as we can the sites we find them on. There are so many to search across yet when we are on a good run in our online dating we are on a good run with a site and will come to regard that dating site as the very best one there is. But the truth of the matter is, we are only ever going to champion those sites, clubs, populations where we find success and eschew those places we don’t.
Therefore really, on an objective basis, is one dating site better then another or is it all just how we perceive them? (more…)
The internet has allowed people to connect with other people from all over the world instead of just meeting the people who are in their own little neighborhood. Websites and message boards dedicated to specific hobbies, social networking sites and dating website make it incredibly easy to meet people that share common interests, whether it’s for relationship purposes or not. (more…)
Sometimes what we have in our head is better off staying there, at least with some people we’re dating. Sometimes our fantasies are made real and they are not only too much for our lover but sometimes ourselves with that lover. And though we might think we have found the perfect match in someone who agrees to give us all we need in bed, sometimes all we need is not want we really want at that time.
When heterosexual people are out there dating, communication can sometimes be a little bit difficult as men and women don’t always understand each other. In fact, men and women can seem very silly and ridiculous to each other at times. Men and women prioritize things differently and they communicate completely differently. When they first start dating and they’re not yet familiar with each other, there can sometimes be some misunderstandings.
Dating in the age of the internet has become almost unrecognizable from the way dating used to be years ago. The internet is bringing a lot of people together, people who probably never would have met otherwise because they wouldn’t have ever just run into each other in everyday life. People are getting together these days, even if they live in different countries that aren’t close to each other.
Dating online November 9, 2011 at
There are some people like soldiers for instance who may be away from home and cannot enjoy Dating or time with their spouses and so choose to do so online. Some people simply have a boyfriend or girlfriend that lives in another place. Dating online allows them to spend time together even though they are far apart. They can play games with one another, they can shop, or look and browse different sites and stores, or they can just talk. If they are in the mood they can even have cyber sex from time to time. (more…)
The online dating world is an exciting smorgasbord of exciting, eligible and sexy people eager for relationships of all kinds. But some people seem to have more luck on these sites while others send out messages and work to no avail, or only seem to meet total losers. What gives here? Are the two people living in parallel dimensions or is one lying? Not at all, there is actually a skill to using these sites well and one person may have it while another doesn’t.