First Kiss Confusion January 16, 2012 at 5:14 pm
Guys, when dating a woman kissing is really important. Most ladies don’t like it when the guy has an out of control tongue that is slobbering all over her face. She likes a little control. First kisses should never be too aggressive and the lady shouldn’t feel like a tongue is being stuffed down her throat.
Some women like being kissed until they’re literally out of breath, but most don’t like that as a first kiss. It’s something a guy has to test out a little at a time to see just how far he can go with any aggressive kissing. For first kisses, a lot of ladies like it when a man asks if he can kiss her. Unfortunately not all women like that. Some prefer a guy to take control of the moment and go in for the kiss.
For a guy, it’s pretty confusing sometimes because he doesn’t know which he should do for any particular lady. If only women came with some sort of user guide. A guy can look for some clues to see what might be the right path. If the lady waits for him to hold doors open for her or seems to expect him to help her on with her coat, she probably would appreciate him asking to kiss her. A lot of women love when a guy takes her face in his hands and looks her in the eyes for a second before going in for the kiss.
Some ladies like it, some will practically swoon, when a guy grabs a handful of the hair at the nape of her neck when he’s kissing her. If she likes that, she’ll probably like it when the guy uses that handful of hair to draw her head back so he can kiss her more deeply or even so he can move down to nibble on her neck and collarbone. Part of the fun of dating is to spend plenty of time experimenting with kissing.