Hello There June 27, 2011 at 7:36 pm
It might seem a sea of peaking bra-straps and pouty lips, but sift long enough and you can find that someone special for the man in your life. To have an open relationship is work you most defiantly have to be able to deal with, for whatever comes up. Part of the fun is surprising the man in your life with a living breathing fantasy or a living breathing girl. And if you are indeed looking hither and dither, not even entertaining the thought of inviting your girlfriend to your bed, then a passionate personals search might be just where you should start.
But a couple must tread lightly for both their sanity and their safety. There are as many pitfalls of acting through an open marriage as there are seeming opportunities for fun and sex gaming.
Of course only the most secure lovers should even attempt any kind of swinging at any juncture; if you do not feel totally secure in his love it is a real bad idea to do this. Sharing your lovers’ sexual fantasy for a threesome or another partner is all well and good, even participating with the other new girl, but be sure allowing a passionate personal into your life, even just looking through them, will not end your life with your guy. And sometimes just the looking is enough, maybe a little dirty camming or some midnight chats, might just quench the thirst you and your man have for another woman in your bed.
Also, having someone enter your home-or even just meeting them for coffee-opens up a can of worms if the new person is more than a little kooky. A crazy person as well as the sane one you are hoping to find can read those personals. Anytime we let another party into our party the party might not turn out to be the party we hoped for when we first set on the search through those passionate personals.
Care, communication and condoms are needed.